12 Aug 2020
Creating a CALM SPACE for Kids
Children, especially toddlers and preschoolers, have BIG FEELINGS.
When kids feel overstimulated or “flooded with feelings”, they don’t know what to do with them. That is why they usually ACT on them or ACT OUT- by screaming, throwing things, hitting, biting, or some other physical way to release their feelings.
It’s our job as parents to teach them how to regulate their feelings. This takes patience and practice. We can model how it’s done by remaining calm, taking a deep breath and offering them an alternative to having a meltdown or tantrum.
One way to promote mindfulness and emotional regulation is by setting up a SAFE SPACE for kids to calm down and manage their feelings in a healthy way. You can call it a Calm Space, Calm Down Spot, Cozy Corner or Tune In Nook. This offers a more gentle option than Time-OUTS by giving them a safe space to take some Time-IN and move through their feelings in a way that is free from blame or shame.
It’s never too early to make room for a Calm Space. You can introduce your baby to a quiet corner with soothing music and sensory objects like stuffies and a blanket, then continue to build on its use as your child grows by adding tools for mindfulness.
5 STEPS TO CREATING A CALM SPACE FOR KIDS
1. Choose an area in your home that is QUIET and not too busy. It could be an cozy corner or area in their bedroom, playroom or family room.
2. Delineate the space by setting up a tent/teepee, hanging a canopy or curtain from the ceiling, using a soft comfy chair, or simply laying out a cozy blanket or rug. Make the space COZY and welcoming with pillows, a floor cushion or blankets. Let your child make the space their own by adding their own items like a favorite blankie or stuffie.
3. Create a CALM DOWN KIT ( like the one below) for your child to use when they are feeling stressed or upset, Fill a bin or basket with mindfulness tools and items that will help calm them down. A few favorite books (yoga and mindfulness books are a plus), play dough, affirmation cards, breathing props such as feathers or a pinwheel, an eye pillow for relaxation, some coloring sheets with crayons and a stuffed friend to hold and hug.
4. Practice using the space by having a daily routine of spending time there together. Choose a daily affirmation card, practice taking deep breaths, do a yoga pose together, color mandalas or journal together if your child is a bit older. Let them know it’s their special place where they can go when they need break or some time to calm down. You can also have some items for YOU to use in the calm space with your child, like an eye pillow or mask for relaxation.
5. When you notice your child is starting to get frustrated or upset, remind your child that it’s ok for them take a break in their Calm Space.
If you would like a MINDFUL ME KIT like the one below, click on the image below. It comes with a set of adorable animal puppets to prompt yoga poses, bubbles and feathers for breathing, pom poms to play “TOE-GA” and choice of lavender flax seed eye pillow- in yoga cats and dogs or yoga monkey pattern- all in a handy drawstring bag for kids to take their mindfulness tools on-the-go! An instruction sheet of the activities is included.
8 Dec 2021
HAVE YOURSELF A MINDFUL LITTLE HOLIDAYS
The Holiday Season is here!
While the greatest PRESENT we can give our children is our PRESENCE, there are so many wonderful resources to share mindfulness and social-emotional learning with your child, students or favorite teacher. The gift of mindfulness and emotional intelligence will keep on giving as children learn to connect with themselves and regulate their emotions through breathing, yoga, and focusing their attention on what is going on in their INNER world.
One of the questions I’m asked most by parents is how to make mindfulness a part of their child’s everyday life. My answer is always the same~ make it fun and PLAY!
That’s why I’ve collected some of my favorite yoga, mindfulness and social-emotional learning tools, toys and games for children ages 2 through preteen is this special MINDFUL HOLIDAY GUIDE! All these resources have been kid-tested (and loved!) time and time again by the students in my classes and by my own daughter.
Please NOTE: This blog post and the MINDFUL GIFT GUIDE contain affiliate links. I receive a small commission for purchases made through these links.
My book Lucinda’s Magical Yoga Adventure is the perfect introduction to yoga and mindfulness. Children will join Lucinda in exploring popular yoga poses, breathing and relaxation as they pretend to be the animals and characters they meet in the story.
My Mindful Magic Kit contains all the Mindfulness tools and props your child needs to find their inner calm! This Kit is filled with a Lavender and Flaxseed Cotton Eye pillow for relaxation, a bottle of bubbles for breathing, a bag of pom poms for playing TOE-ga game for focus, a set of 10 animal finger puppets for interactive yoga and movement storytelling all tucked in a a cute cotton pouch so kids can take their mindful goodies ON THE GO!! Comes wth printer Instructions for guiding kids through all the mindful activities.
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